Tuesday, August 23, 2011

Vital Information For Everyday Life

Hai Hai; I see you have returned yet again for another random Monday blog. You must either be really bored or really be interested in my somewhat twisted mentality, either way you are awesome for taking the time to read this. You should already have an idea of what we will be referring to for today's blog, the act of cuddling. This can take place before or after sex; typically however it is also done as two partners go to sleep, they embrace and fall asleep intertwined with one another as loving partners. Most women actually prefer cuddling to sex, as it gives them a more emotional connection with their partner and comforts them. Sadly most men aren't much for cuddling, and prefer sex usually followed by sleep or some other activity, which leaves their partner feeling distant and emotionally unattached.

Men tend to not realize the importance or use of cuddling for a wide variety of reasons, some logical while others not so much. Researchers claim that men are emotionally detatched due to complexes about masculinity, but there is nothing unnatural or un-manly for a man to like cuddling. In today's society you even have females who aren't exactly fans of cuddling, and don't always readily want it in the first place; it's like they say different strokes for different folks. Here are some reasons men tend to not cuddle:

  1. Too hot. Many guys have a high metabolic rate, and therefore their bodies run a little hotter than a woman's. Having a body pressed up against you creates a lot of body heat, and this can make it too hot for comfort.
  2. Not comfortable. Typically the man is larger than the woman and he might feel like he's crushing you or that you feel that he's too heavy for you.
  3. The arms. Putting one arm over your woman is a nice feeling, but what to do about that pesky other arm? If guy's had detachable arms maybe they wouldn't mind cuddling so much. Many times the unused arm will fall asleep, and get really uncomfortable in the process.
Thankfully once both parties accept and understand the limitations and complications of effective cuddling compromise can be made so that both parties can benefit mutually whether pre or post coitus (sex). Cuddling has a wide variety of positions similar to the act of sex itself, so it should be relatively easy to find suitable positions for cuddling that suit your needs. As per always here on Zalgo Cometh we strive to entertain and inform you at the same time. So take a gander at this educational video of sorts, that gives a run through of some more well versed cuddling positions, from some familiar faces from a TV sitcom you may remember...


August 25, 2011 at 10:54 PM

i like this blog n cuddling is a cute way to say i love u to ur partner. but that john stamos video needs help but is helpful.

August 25, 2011 at 11:26 PM

awesome video is awesome

August 26, 2011 at 2:01 AM

the video has issues

August 26, 2011 at 11:30 AM

Lmao funny funny funny gotta love those guys, my view on cuddling i gona be graphic its like sex without actually penetration for me, i love the whole connection being embrace thru just a simple touch also it tends to lead to a lil play time :D cuddling rocks hoepfully men will start liking it more :D

CHU ^_^

August 26, 2011 at 10:28 PM

lol @ your so called 'graphicness' Renie...lol

August 26, 2011 at 10:28 PM

poll on Do You Like Cuddling Before Or After Sex? ended with 4 votes for both and 1 vote for after

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