Which Is Worse?

I been thinking of late about a lot of things but mostly about life and love. I think ideally that's just something that will always be a source of deep thought and consideration amongst us human. You know how they say "its better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all?" Well I have been thinking and wondering why if this is so people make it seem so hard to love someone or at the very least love a person in return. Which brings me to my initial thought about love and how funny it is; because to love someone is the easiest thing to do even though so few do it but its the maintaining and receiving of love that is truly the hard part.

They say the crappiest feeling in the world is the feeling of unrequited love; loving someone with your all and not having that love returned in kind. In a situation as such though their are two parties feelings to consider as with most things in life; there will always be two sides to the story. So that then begs the question which is worse? The person who doesn't return the love and affection being shown to them or is it the person that is showing the love while expecting it in return but not actually considering the other persons feelings? This is quite the scenario as its very situational depending on the viewpoint of the people within the relationship and those outside the relationship. So lets take a look shall we...

At is the perfect equation when you can put two people together that love and respect the love they have for each other. Knowing that you have that level of loyalty and give and take your faith in yourself and your partner is unshakable and able to stand the test of time no matter the scenario. Sadly in our current society this is becoming less and less of a standard and more and more of an anomaly. When one person gives their all for another but that person holds back the love they should be sharing it causes an imbalance in the relationship that leads to a mountain worth of problems. Most times these problems lead to the eventual end of the love being shared and typically leaves the primary lover feeling confused, and betrayed. Confused because they still love the person even though they feel used which leaves the feeling of betrayal. This however doesn't only happen in relationships as even before that aspect of a relationship is agreed upon friendships and acquaintances can end up in this similar scenario where one person is constantly giving and the other is constantly receiving. As individuals to avoid a situation as such I think we should always be evaluating the relationships we keep with people and ask ourselves what we are doing or could do to maintain the balance of being a giver or a receiver. You must restore order to the force...

Sometimes in life your expectations don't match up with the realities of life you face. A prime example of this is happens in relationships a lot, balancing your needs with the expectations of your partner going as far as being more of a lady or gentleman. You may know what you want or hope for but actually factoring in the harsh realities of life and circumstance can quickly squash any of those hopes and dreams. So one has to think if they are willing to compromise for the sake of their partner. Another dilemma of love now arises where you can either decide to live with the faults and work on them or be your own person and do as you please. We already know there is potential for a happy ending if you choose the first option so what we are gonna look at is the second one. They say if you truly love something you should let it go and if it comes back to you it was always yours. I kinda think that's bullshit cause if it was yours then they should have realized that long ago and wanted to continue remaining yours. Ignorance really is no excuse for stupidity but I usually forget that humans are strange and erratic creatures so they can't be expected to always function as the high brain function species they are. With this in mind the ultimate sacrifice is loving some one so much you realize even thou they are what you need you aren't what they need. You make a decision to let them go find what it is that they need, this way your love for them to be happy is fulfilled even if its not with you. This is something that you have to live with everyday for the rest of your life so it is not a sacrifice to be taken lightly.

So after all is said and done which do you consider worse? Loving and not being loved or loving and having too come to the realization that your love is lost ad giving it up? For me i think having to give up on your love is way worse because you have to live with the unanswered questions and wonder what could have been had it all gone according to plan. What do you think? Leave a comment with your view and why.

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So, Are You Back For More?

Hey you there; come here a second. Closer, take a look over here. Yep you guessed it; another Monday blog post...

So last week we talked about some shit I don't like and it seemingly went somewhat well enough. Actually got some of y'all to take the time to respond and post comments as well so that's always nice. Anywhore this is basically part two so proudly presenting for your entertainment more shit I don't like.

Condescending Assholes:

Don't know how many of you remember this commercial but it was all the rage back in the day. Now I am not saying you shouldn't have pride in a skill or talent by any means. What specifically I am referring to that I don't like is people who are overbearingly judgmental of other people when they themselves know that they aren't much better or in some cases any better than the person they are judging. Perfect example would be those girls that have the time to chat and gossip about other girls live and tease and ridicule them when their life really is not better off so they feel this innate need to belittle others just so they can feel better about their pathetic existence. Come on at least try to be a good enough person so the next generation doesn't have to suffer for your stupidity. Please and thanks...

Bandwagonists:

Next on the list we have the aforementioned wagonists of the band species. Now to be fair we all have our bandwagonist moments. For the few people that may not know a bandwagonist is someone who mindlessly goes along with an action or idea, without any real reason other than other people are doing it. The latest reason this pisses me off is all the people that jumped on the Oppa Gangnam Style song that took the world by storm over the last month or so. Let me just go on record saying that if at this stage you do not have even an inkling of what Oppa Gangnam Style is then please go kill yourself if you are under the age of 30 because obvious you serve no purpose in this age of technology. Anywhore all these people that at first when the song came out hated it or thought it was stupid suddenly started going around talking about how its an awesome song once the song went mainstream and blew up. These people make me so angry I want to punch a baby in the face; do you have any idea how angry one has to be to punch a baby in the face? No? Didnt think so; that's pretty freaking angry. So to all those people and yes you know who you are a big "fuck you" to you "Oppa Gangnam Style!!!"

Posers/Faker:

A poser is someone who tries to fit into a profile they aren't. People who try to give off the impression that they are one thing when they are really another. We see them everyday; the girl that has to have all the latest clothing and accessories to show the world how well off she is; or the guy that randomly enters a conversation awkwardly trying to fit in and be a part of the group. This is ever more so prevalent in our schools as this is technically where the young minds of our future are shaped and grown. which sadly is also why most of life turns out to be just like school; one big popularity contest. We live in a world where individuality is reprimanded and uniformity is heralded, for we are all sheep to be herded by the guile of society. By all means though have the common sense to think for yourself and see what fits within your individualism. Its a reason certain uniformity is needed in society as rules are meant to guide us, but certainly not to rule us; this is why they are also called guidelines. Don't find yourself in a situation like Clarence where your eagerness to fit into a role you aren't meant for is exposed...

Well that takes care of that, as always your comments and thoughts are encouraged and appreciated. For those experiencing Hurricane Sandy in the USA at the moment I hope this could put a smile on your face and/or entertain you as you strap in for quite the ride. It hit Jamaica pretty bad but we are rebuilding and restoring all that was lost as best we can. So keep calm and carry on; you are a first world country so I have faith in y'all, you shouldn't have third world problems like our tiny island so all the best to you.

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Open You Mind, Ears, And Maybe Even Your Legs...

That my friends is called an 'eargasm'. Few are blessed to experience this sacred and blessed event in their lifetime physically. Most just experience it mentally, count yourself in the lucky few to have witnessed it first hand. Welcome to another random Monday blog here on Zalgo Cometh, felt like touching on something of musical nature today so lets get this popping. Firstly for those that might not know let me define what an 'Eargasm' is. Although self explanatory for anyone who knows what an orgasm feels like  this is not to be confused with as such cause ain't nothing better than a right proper orgasm...^_^

Eargasm:

July 26, 2006

1. noun. The sensation one gets while hearing a dramatic climax in music.

2. noun. The climax of musical excitement.

3. verb. To have an eargasm.

With that out of the way we are going to dig into two up and coming genres of music that are taking the world by storm. These i'm referring to are Dubstep and K-POP. Yes I know for us that are vastly internet savvy this may seem a moot subject but oddly enough this is just a post to inform the masses not the hipsters like us normal internet denizens. At the very least you can refer someone who is a newbie to the subject matter to help them understand the awesomeness that lays in wait for them. If you hadn't figured it out by now I said 'we' earlier as I was implying I have garnered the help of another individual to cover the K-POP side of things in a more detailed manner.

That is Skrillex; not the picture the actual video. Now although by no means the inventor of Dubstep he is the more popular face of Dubstep and has done a lot for the genre and the bringing of it to the public domain. He has many songs that embody the awesomeness of Dubstep and you can go check out his channel right over (here). Now as far as Dubstep goes there are many different explanations trying to label describe or otherwise put human logic to the true meaning of its nature. Some say its robots having sex,  people say it makes the ladies panties drop, others say its music from the devil but I for one think it is just a truth of the universe that you accept and allow to take over you body. Seriously its just music people; plain and simple, it might sound like sweet nectar from the gods but its just awesome music. Towards the end of the decade the genre started to become more commercially successful in the UK, with more singles and remixes entering the music charts. It was at this point we started seeing lots of Dubstep being injected into mainstream culture at large; movies, video games, even simple television commercials had to have a bit of Dubstep. One of the best characteristics of Dubstep, is the 'bass drop'; its normally when the percussion pauses for a second and then comes back with a heavier bass line. It is always very pleasurable to hear one but you really need to hear it on a big sound system to know how good it is. This is usually the main source of 'eargasms' in conjunction with Dubstep music.

Next up on the agenda is K-POP, i'm sure by now most of you would have already seen, heard of, or know Oppa Gangnam Style. The hot new single by PSY that is taking over the world by storm and spreading mainstream knowledge of K-POP and its awesomeness. Currently at over 199 million views on YouTube as of being uploaded on July 15. PSY is a Korean artist and that is what the K in K-POP stands for essentially. Many other songs from the genre are just as catchy and fun to listen, but let me not get too ahead of myself, introducing a true K-POP fan I present to you Pica* (subjects name changed to protect identity).

So since 2008, I’ve been fascinated with the Asian culture by all sorts of medium, manga, anime, drama, music, food oh cant leave that out love my belly too much. It all started with one and led to the others. Music was the last to slap me in the face and called me its bitch, I heard a song from a Korean drama that I loved to death and started youtube’ing  the group who sang it. Then I started finding a lot more people that I really like, mind you I still just know a few words in either Japanese or Korean, still learning the Chinese stuff. What I felt listening to the music was like a deep connection to a culture not my own. Its like the words played in my head and I knew instantly what they were feeling,  and the emotions they wish to convey. Currently I have a lot of songs on my phone that people always wonder what the hell are these, lol but to me I get it, I understand it. I'm happy to say my Jamaican family has started to embrace what I found long ago. Gangnam Style; people soon be like "oh that man is surely a music genius."

Well folks that is the end of our little expose on Dubstep and K-POP. Hope you found it entertaining and informative, if not sorry you fail at life and can't appreciate a new experience. Sucks to be you...

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