tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-179623868392706904.post6488714226743876477..comments2023-05-16T04:04:41.429-04:00Comments on In The Mind Of My Mind: Which Is Worse?Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11841101994517317188noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-179623868392706904.post-41544976151124780762013-04-18T14:43:45.991-04:002013-04-18T14:43:45.991-04:00Bad timing plays a role in our day to day existenc...Bad timing plays a role in our day to day existence everyday but its like they say; you gotta keep on keeping on. Even though things may not go according to plan its still better to actually have a plan and adapt accordingly than have no plan at all. Very few people in this world effectively know exactly how to determine what they need and what they want and its because of this many of us lose our way and lose out on the things we overlook because of circumstances and the effect of bad timing as you put it. Carpe Diem!! And strive to make the most of life and not take its occurrences for granted because so much can go wrong so fast and losing out on so much. True love never fails; it just sits and slowly withers but somehow never dies. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11841101994517317188noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-179623868392706904.post-14695082933043876062013-04-17T05:04:36.379-04:002013-04-17T05:04:36.379-04:00i believe in bad timing, this never goes according...i believe in bad timing, this never goes according to plan and sometimes breaking the rules is what helps u to achieve you love more than anything else. we humans we make mistakes and sometimes what we think we need in our life never really is, people get lost sometimes in what it is that they truly want and how to achieve it. Just love as much as you can, if u love yourself it dnt hurt as much wen one love fails maybe it just wasnt meant to be no matter how deep we wanted it <br /><br />Chu ^_^Renienoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-179623868392706904.post-3055014294073887562013-04-16T20:43:33.715-04:002013-04-16T20:43:33.715-04:00true that. i agree with everything you said except...true that. i agree with everything you said except the presenting the option part. it shouldn't be an issue of you giving them the option of leaving but more so you realizing that its not working and they would be better suited elsewhere so you let them go. that way you have minimal to no regrets and remain in control of your feelings and the situation.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11841101994517317188noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-179623868392706904.post-24615944684752717242013-04-16T18:14:19.568-04:002013-04-16T18:14:19.568-04:00If we could only be honest in relationships the wo...If we could only be honest in relationships the world would be a better place. Many times we are in love with the idea of a person and not the person and so we will never be truly contented in that relationship. Whether we want to admit it or not we are opportunistic beings in relationship but the genuine person will look for a mutualistic relationship. <br /><br />I believe there is no greater thing that two persons who are completely in love with each other. I have had the experience of being in love and not loved in return.I knew I would never have been truly happy in such a situation (as the bastard cheated more than once)and it wasn't fair to be in a relationship with this person hindering their happiness. It has been 9 years, I still love him (they do say true love never dies) but I wouldn't date him again. <br /><br />The thing about love is that it is unconditional and there is no way a person in love would hurt the one they are with. If it happens once just seeing your loved one hurt would make you vow not to do so again, because if they hurt,you hurt.People misuse the word love so much so they don't understand it. I believe in destiny and that thing they call compatibility so if you are in a relationship and it ain't working, move your ass along. It might hurt for weeks, months or even years. You might have sleepless nights, loss of appetite or even faint for lack of food (like me, lol) but guess what time heals all and you will get over it. Not everyone is compatible and in this world there will always be better and worst in every situation. Hence, that man or woman you are pining over is not worth your emotions because you will find someone who values you and treat you like the king or queen you rightly deserve to be treated as. Think about it, if they truly loved you would they have taken the option of leaving when you presented it? They might come back when they test the waters outside and it doesn't measure up to the one they had with you all along, then they come back like the prodigal son. If you are like the prodigal son forgiving daddy then you can take back your ungrateful partner,lol!<br /><br />LisaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com