Tuesday, July 26, 2011

Lets Talk About Sex Baby...

Oh yea, you know what it is; penises, vagina's, and all the fixings. We are gonna have a little talk about sex on today's random Monday blog, more so to the point of oral sex. In this day and age with each passing generation, sex is becoming more and more prevalent in younger age groups of individuals; this is mostly due to the ease of access to information, and the age of technology we are currently in. Traditionally, sex was seen as the act in which the male reproductive organ enters the female reproductive tract for the purpose on procreation. The definition may additionally include penetrative sexual acts between same-sex pairings, such oral intercourse, anal intercourse, and fingering, which are also commonly practiced by heterosexual couples. So for those that need a simpler explanation; insert tab A (penis) into slot B (vagina)...

So we all know the basic purpose behind sex is for procreation, but somewhere along the annals (lol I almost said anal) of time something changed, and we started having sex just for the hell of it. From this sex blossomed into something that took on a meaning of emotional bonding; yet again as time passed on some have taken it as just a recreational past time. Thankfully due to social norms and accepted practices, it is still mainly seen as a means of forging an emotional bond with a special someone on a higher level. Contrary to popular belief, intercourse often ends when the man has ejaculated. Thus the partner might not have time to reach orgasm. In addition, many men suffer from premature ejaculation thus complicating the act even more. Conversely, many women require a substantially longer duration of stimulation than men before reaching an orgasm. Therefore with this in mind the goal of satisfying your partner is set and should be upheld; this is where added variants of sex such as oral sex come into play.

I think the video speaks for itself but it comes with guidelines; at the end of the day everyone is different in some way or another. Now i'm not saying you should go out and eat down the place, neither am I saying you shouldn't hold tight to your own views on oral sex. Take it as it is; as an argument to sway your opinion enough to consider the possibility of supporting the act if you don't already or reinforcing what you would have already known. The concentration of the nerve endings that lie close to the entrance of a woman's vagina can provide pleasurable sensation during sexual activity, when stimulated in a way that the particular woman enjoys. Only 25% of women who have intercourse achieve an orgasm, whereas the number goes as high as 81% for oral sex. Hell; with statistics like those, that should be more than reason enough to want to give it a go if your wanting to pleasure your partner to the maximum; who doesn't want to put their best foot forward and leave a lasting impression. If you think about it logically if you are willing to kiss the neck, breasts, stomach, and many other erogenous zones then why not go for the meat of the matter so to speak..?

Well in all fairness I had to talk about men getting head as well; but as most things are in life, men have it a bit more complicated. Most women sadly see this act as something downgrading or embarrassing but it is far from it in reality. You should feel special that we are trusting you with one of the most important things to us in this world as we lay/stand there defenseless and at your mercy. As mentioned earlier, all we ask is that you have an open and engaging enough mind to not be disgusted by the thought of giving head, and as the picture above shows always be wary of your teeth. As I mentioned earlier even if the female indulges the male in this act, we come to the ever important question of swallowing or spitting

Swallowing; the all time preferred option of men as it serves a variety of benefits: eliminates any mess, provides uninterrupted climax, and there is just something sexy about watching a girl trust you enough to do something like that for you. This is coupled with the fact that men are visual creatures and respond emphatically to visual stimuli especially when related to sex. Spitting; also acceptable as there is some portion of trust from the female and a compromise from the man to accept the lengths she is willing to go; this is always better than no head at all. Spitting supports the same benefits as swallowing except for the uninterrupted climax. This is a halfway point of compromise for the sake of head that is more than acceptable given what the man is asking of his partner. 

The choice between these two usual boils down to two things; her perception of cum and the taste of the cum itself. Now there is not much we can do about the first one, as she herself has to be the one to come to terms with it, we can only support whatever decision she makes as men. If she makes it that far to decide to have the cum in her mouth then that's where we take over in affecting the taste of the cum. If you know the day is going to include a blow job later, the best thing you can do for your potential lover is plan your prior meal considerately and watch the consumption of cheap alcohol. That bitter, yeasty taste in beer adds the same flavor to your cum. In general, nutritionists say that alkaline-based foods such as meats and fish produce a bitter, fish taste. Dairy products, which contain a high bacterial putrefaction level create the foulest tasting fluids by far. Acidic fruits, such as sweets, and fruits give bodily fluids a pleasant, sugary flavor. So stock up on those in your meal, if you don't want to end up turning her off from the idea of giving you head, because in the real world not every female is as eager for a penis in her mouth as you may think...

Disclaimer: If you think I am being biased or offensive in anyway I apologize, but it was bound to happen in some shape or form considering I am but just a man with an opinion and information to give to you...^_^


July 26, 2011 at 3:53 AM

Sex...is...its...it....is gods gift to man

July 27, 2011 at 12:45 AM

Having sex just for the hell of it :D lmao nice well as i can say well i wont say hmmmmm interesting facts i learnt 2day esp d nutrition tips WOW pretty scary if u ask me lol bt hey big thumbs up to d girl and her big fat cock fetish her big fat lips will work wonders on them :D nice

July 27, 2011 at 12:52 AM

wuss. you should say/ knowledge helps you overcome fear it is the ignorance of not knowing or false information that should be feared.

July 27, 2011 at 10:36 PM

hehee... love this one. Well i was never one to knock the whole oral sex thing. Some pepl do it to all their sex partners, others my decide to do it depending on how comfortable the feel with their partner or if they think the relationship is going to be long term, while others prefer to wait until marriage before making such decision. Depending on who ur doing it with u just might end up enjoy giving it to ur partner. When ever u decide to do it, if u ever just be safe, clean and have fun.

July 29, 2011 at 5:05 PM

great post as always its a bit one sided tho ,u out lined oral sex for "him" and not oral sex for "her" im sure the ladies wouldnt mind ,

but im not complaining

great work

July 29, 2011 at 5:57 PM

i try but know i wud be hence the disclaimer i put underneath the last video. any ladies can feel free to post they thoughts on it or experiences

July 29, 2011 at 9:04 PM

poll on Are You Open Minded To Oral Sex? ended with 7 votes for yes and 1 vote for no

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